How to be super successful

There have been many things that made a huge difference in my life and success. But one thing that really stood out was when I began to pay attention to my thoughts and feelings. Let me share my experience with you, and maybe one day you'll do the same and transform your life too.

I noticed that I often had negative thoughts that just wouldn't go away. I didn't like it, but I wasn't doing anything about it either. At that time, I spent a lot of time driving, so I came up with a little game. I took two small pieces of paper and wrote "thinking" on one and "feeling" on the other. Then, I stuck them in my car—one on the left side, behind the steering wheel, and the other on the right side. I could easily see them while driving.

I wanted to remind myself throughout the day to check what I was thinking and feeling. Every time I saw those papers while driving, I'd think about my thoughts and feelings at that moment, whether they were good or bad. If they were negative, I would say the word “erase." If that didn't work, I'd push the negative thought out with positive thoughts. It took some practice, but as days turned into weeks, it became a habit. I didn't even need the labels anymore—I automatically checked my thoughts and replaced negatives with positives.

Over time, I became more positive, and my life started changing. I seemed to attract good things into my life. I began living a peaceful and happy life because I stopped focusing on the negative.

After a few months, my mind was trained. I no longer needed the labels; I was constantly monitoring my thoughts. My guard that stands at the entrance of my mind warns be of incoming negative thoughts.

If you try this, it can make a huge change in your life too. You could then start a personal development program, working on things like your attitude, character, how you treat people and yourself, your goals, finances, and your dream life.

Over a decade ago, a man made a promise to me that if I would change, everything would change for me. And it did. So, I pass that promise on to you. If you're willing to change, everything else will change for you too.